This person I walked to school with always called herself ugly but got all the guys & even some girls?

I used to feel bad for this person she had no self confidence at all and not very pretty she also was talking about suicide I used to say you shouldnt say those things & feel bad for her Come to find out She had everyone wanting her I was the 1 with the HIGH self confidence and it turned out no one wanted meI feel like im in the twilight zone here